Pages

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

its not all wine & roses all the time though...well, ok the wine part is true.

its REALLY hot here today... in the 90's & Stella i think isn't loving it. she was up all day fussing here & there & just wouldn't go down. nursing & nursing, walking in the stroller to the library, to the park, playing in the yard in the bouncer, in the swing, nursing, bouncing on the shoulder, dancing, singing, nursing. Oh and nursing. just when i thought i had her down for good a little while ago, i laid her down in the crib & her eyes popped open. then she saw this little mirror stuffed animal creature attached to the crib & she made the saddest little face. her chin starts jiggling & she starts crying again. just makes my heart ache to see her little face so sad & scared. so i picked her up & put her on my shoulder to comfort her & she horked (hork splat) up the hugest puke all down my back & all over the rug. UGH> Thinking to myself...Topher please walk through that door. now would be a good time. hmmm....sooooo i kept patting & bouncing her while i cleaned up the puke with my foot, a towel & some rug spray. by the time i was done cleaning up the puke with my foot, i nursed her again for i swear the 8 zillionth time today....BUT, finally SALVATION. all my efforts not in vain. still sleeping. Topher called & asked if i wanted anything on his way home from work. WINE I said. me drinking wine again in the cool evening...see a reoccuring theme here? Oh well. At least I haven't started doing it while she's awake in the day. YET.

Still blessed with her presence, no matter how cranky she is. All she has to do is smile & it all melts away.




Hoping to push through to the peace with a little more grace tomorrow.




Oh, & she loves to stick out her tongue now. For better or worse. What's up with the black spot though? Topher googled it & found something that said Indians (feather not dot) say that the black spot on a baby's tongue means they are good luck & that whatever they say will come true. Let's hope she's no totalitarian ruler or naysayer. with those eyes, how could she be?

Monday, July 20, 2009

Flickr

This is a test post from flickr, a fancy photo sharing thing.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Welcome newest McGarry, Stella Heitland

May 20, 2009
6lbs 6oz
7:57 AM

Our world changed forever, in the most profound, sweet & unexpectedly graceful way.

Ecstatic to be mama & papa to you Baby Stella!











a whole new chapter! a whole new life! more coming soon!!!!

Monday, October 6, 2008

East Coast Leg Fall Tour 2008 - "This Band is Your Band"

CHICAGO ~ BLOOMINGTON ~ MARYLAND
with a short digression into the Colorado Leg as well....


Chicago OCT 3 2008 – We flew in from Portland to Chicago on Friday where we met the boys & the bus. The bus had a spendover in Denver & Nathan, Dan & Taylor drove it out to Chicago a few days before from Denver.

A few weeks before we had done a Colorado/ New Mexico 12 day tour of which I blogged NOT. I slacked. My camera is busted, so my inspiration of photo posting & blogging had left me....I'll see if I can scramble some pathetic photos from my iPhone...

COLORADO TOUR was: 9/12-9/22



Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse puppets @ Tour de Fat

BOULDER - 9/5

Early rise to get to Fort Collins by the 9 am soundcheck...





Fort Collins - 9/6



Tires of Fire Choir!

7,000 FANS!!!!



Denver – Tour De Fat,
Pueblo – Obama Rally - Obama campaigne was happy to have us play for the 15,000 in attendance as they filed into the arena.  WOO HOO!!!

This is a picture of me with the next President of the USA (he's waving in the background)!!!!


Gunnison 
Crested Butte
Taos
A picture of some cool furniture at a store in Taos...my spirit animal...THE TIGER!



Santa Fe – Santa Fe Brewing company
Durango – TDF, Abbey Theatre


High altitude fun was had in Colorado, although it was probably the smallest combination of M4 to ever take the show to the road. We still rocked it & even had the opportunity to introduce Taylor on electric guitar for a few songs.

BACK TO CHICAGO>>>>

I digress...back to Chicago...se played the Cobra Lounge again, where we played last year, & once again were treated real well. Tallboy’s bass drum did not make it out on the plane though, so the EE (Environmental Encroachment) were kind enough to bring us a bass drum for him to play. Although, it wasn’t quite up to Tallboy’s standards & a lot BIGGER than his other drum. It had a more boomy bassend feel than we are used to, but better than no bass end at all...thanks EE for the loan! I think we arrived at the venue generally too early in the day & people started hitting the drinky drinky pretty hard, so by the time our midnight set rolled around, there were a few perty sauced individuals that made for a cantankerous & bafflingly wonky set. Although, everyone in the audience was probably at least as smashed, so they loved it. Yours truly, sober as I am for the last 3 weeks, can tell when we are not at our best & playing the drunken slide. There was some issue with the feedback loop on stage & the bass & bass drum creating some kind of ambient hum which made the on stage sound almost unbearable. Folks in the crowd said it sounded fine, but man, being on the stage was a little like playing inside a burn barrel.



John picked up a sweet bass guitar that day from an amazing music store the Chicago Music Exchange & they gave us 40 t-shirts! Today everyone is wearing theirs, we look like a walking advertisement. Smart Marketing! They were kind enough to let him test out the bass for the duration of the tour, & if he doesn’t like it by the time we come back through Chicago, he can bring it back. Pretty sweet deal. It sounds so much better than the other bass which has been through a fair amount of abuse over the years.

A lot of m4thers headed up to the jam space on the 4th floor of the Cobra complex after the show that night ( 2 am or so) for a jam session that lasted until the sun came up.

Next morning we packed up & headed out for Bloomington Indiana…but not before we had to detour to the Chicago O’Hare to pick up the missing drums. The detour put us behind schedule a bit & would wind up missing our earliest downbeat on the LOTUS fest schedule….

Bloomington – LOTUS fest

It seems we were scheduled to play @ 5:45 for a parade, then again @ 8:30 parade, then again @ 10:30 on the main stage. The myriad of minds maintaining the minutae of musical mayhem that is the M4 touring schedule couldn't do anything about making that 5:45 slot. We had to go to the airport that morning & get the Drums…We high tailed it as fast as we could with "the Breathalizer" at the wheel, once we had procured the drums, but Chicago to Bloomington is about a 7 hour drive as the tour bus flies, so many of us did our makeup & costuming on the bus while we were driving once we got close to Bloomington (which is always entertaining & interesting & you get to know your band mates better than you ever thought you would kind of experience...you also get makeup in unintended places whenever you hit a bump or turn a corner....).

Once there, we put the drums together, put the stilts on, tuned the horns, hauled the merch & rigged the bass & headed over to the parade route in downtown Bloomington.

A swarm of avid LOTUS FEST go-ers followed us as we meandered to the starting route down Kirkland Ave. People were excited to see us, that was exciting! Some people were clapping & cheering & we weren’t even playing music! We were just walking down the street in our regalia. Now that is a good gig.

When the parade started, the scene was epic. The street was absolutely packed for about 10 blocks & we made our way through the crowd playing our most energetic & rippin’ marching tunes.

There were some near audience casualties from the riot style cramped space in the street, but we were able to carve out an area big enough for us to spread out a few times. I actually had to tell one woman “I really don’t want to hit you” because she was literally shoulder to shoulder with me & swinging my sticks & I think I hit her a few times, but I didn’t mean too!!! Sorry if I did! Gotta give the drummers some space! Tallboy definitely whacked a few people because he swings out about 2 .5 feet on either side of the drum, but I guess that is part of the thrill of marching along with the marching band….ITS DANGEROUS PEOPLE!!!

After the parade set we let the whole crowd know we’d be playing again @ 10:30 on the main stage.

We had a short break between & headed over to the tent/ampitheater space for our Saturday night headlining set.

Last year we had to “parade plug” the audience of the previous band to get people to stay for our show & because no one knew who we were. It worked & we kept the entire crowd & played a ROCKING SET complete with tallboy surfing the crowd while playing his bass drum for the finale.

This year, our reputation exceeded our wildest dreams & no “plug” was needed. When we marched in & took the stage, the crowd filled in the huge tent area on its own. I don’t know, 1000-1500 people? Hard to say. A big crowd to say the least & everyone was cheering to deafening proportions by the end of the set. I always get a little shy feeling when that happens. Oh what a feelin’, though. That’s what it is all about. I haven’t heard that big crowd roar since the anniversary show & it is a welcome addition to the beginning of this east coast tour. THANK YOU BLOOMINGTON!!! WE LOVE YOU & we will come back as long as you want us to!!!!!

Take a gander for yourself!!!!!  This is great video/audio of our tune Tongue N Groove by Luke Solmon...or "TNG" as we call it:


http://www.loqu.com/lotus-festival-bloomington-2008/videos/somebmxer-63585


LOTUS even put us up in hotel rooms! The beds were so comfortable! & they kept the bar, the pool & the hot tub open into the wee hours of the morning for us. We didn’t’ get back the hotel until 1:30 or 2 am so, that was nice of them. Some kids went to the after party & were out all night until the sun came up. I was of the mindset that if I have a hotel room, I’m gonna USE IT!!!! Shower, bed, clean sheets, YUMMY YUMMY!



Next day we up at the crack, & DRIVE ALL DAY to Maryland & Topher's mom's house, stay the night, get up & drive to NYC for our show @ the Knitting Factory!!!


Friday, July 11, 2008

BACK IN PTOWN FOR THE BLUES FESTIVAL

SAY HI TO THE NEWEST MEMBER OF THE M4 EXTENDED FAMILY, PIPER!!!  DOESN'T SHE LOOK JUST LIKE DOMO?AWWW YEAH!  Keenan is still the reigning champion of M4 style though.  
Here we are after the show getting kicked out of the backstage area.  Well, as long as there is beer & no one asks us to leave, why would we officer???
Scarlett & Nayana being coy....
Chillin after the set, in beautiful downtown portland waterfront park.  Gotta love this city.  It is good to be home.
And what an amazing set we played!!!!!  The REVIEWS: 






Mama I'm comin home...

Tallboy & cymbal dancer washing the bus like good boys.  Gotta keep our sweet baby in tip top shape!!!!Nathan filling the tank. 
OUCH!!!!!  Jeez gas is expensive!  It was 5.09/gal at this gas station in northern cali.  It's about a dollar a gallon for us in the mad wretching spam boat at this point.  Keep buying those t-shirts & cd's, every little bit helps!!!
We pulled into my folk's place at about midnight & awoke to a huge spread of eggs, bacon, pastries, fruits & all the fixings in the morning.  We had to high tail it out by 10am to make it back to P-town for the BLUES FESTIVAL!!!!!

Thursday, July 10, 2008

HIGH SIERRA MUSIC FESTIVAL ~ Quincy CA

What does MarchFourth Marching Band do when they are at a big music festifal?  Keith doesnt' know either.In the evening, the DON SWIRVING FESTIVAL TOUR is in full effect.  Led by the one, the only, mr Swirving himself...as seen below:
Tours depart regularly in the evening from parking space #14.  No refunds, no exchanges, only swirving & weaving allowed on the tour.
WARNING:   tours may result in ecstactic states of being, excessive happiness, laughing until you cry & writhe in pain & finding what you've been looking for all these years....
When you aren't paying attention, you may even change skin color....
Or your chest hair could be sculpted into fantastic artworks....
After the tour, you might need some time to sit around with pals & reflect on the transformational effects.
And of course, drink margaritas.....

and eat buttered corn.  That always helps.

We really did play shows & rip people's minds out of thier heads with our zany arrangements, but I don't have any proof or documentation of that.  SO, you'll just have to take my word for it. If anyone saw us play & has photos or videos, feel free to post.  I usually have my hands full of drumsticks during performances....it sure is fun though!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Here wait, I found some proof, boring & obvious though it is:  http://www.highsierramusic.com/index.php?page=MarchFourth  When do we get our live cut of our main stage set????